Anal Sex Toys for Men – for Girls
When you want to start using anal sex toys for men in the bedroom, it can be tough to bring it up. Your partner might not be as excited about the concept of having something go up his ass as you are. There are a number of psychological and social reasons for this hesitation, but there are a few techniques and tips that can help you overcome this hesitation. If your ultimate goal is to provide enhanced sexual experiences to your man, then you should have very little trouble using these toys in your bed room. In this article, you will learn:
1. How to choose the best anal sex toys for men if you are a woman
2. How to introduce the idea of using masculine prostate toys.
3. How to go from the novice to intermediate use of these toys
The first thing you want to do is start talking to your husband or boyfriend about the quality of his orgasms. Ultimately, he is going to tell you that he is pleased. Ask him if he thinks he is experiencing the most intense orgasm that he could imagine, though. He will probably tell you that sometimes he does. Then, you simply ask him if he is ready to move on to something even better. He will probably question how you even know this is possible. Just tell him you read about it in one of your girly magazines!
From there, you want to make sure you choose the best toy that you can. There are plenty of anal sex toys for men, but they aren’t all created equally. If your guy is going to hesitate at the idea of having something up his ass, you may just want to start with your finger. It is far safer (and cleaner) to use rectal toys for men, though. If he’s not too keen on the idea, then start with something small (but effective) like the mangasm alpha. Since he is already on board for this trial, you can be sure that he will be ready to experience more ass play. So you might as well just go ahead and order a second toy at the same time you pick up the alpha. Several women that I know report success with the mangasm Rush, the Buzz, and the Spark.
Once your guy is ready, have him lay down on his back. Apply a lot of lube to the toy and his ass. It helps to get him to relax if you provide oral stimulation while you are getting started with the toy. Ask him to tap you on the shoulder when you hit the prostate and it starts to feel pretty good. You will only need one hand, so it is recommended that you use the other to stimulate his rod along with your lips.
Once he gets used to this feeling, he is going to relax. At that point, he will probably have the biggest orgasm you have ever seen. If you don’t like to swallow, you really need to be prepared for this moment, as it can happen with little warning. When he starts to buck his hips, you need to move back. Continue stimulating his prostate and penis, though, using your well lubricated toy and hand.
After he learns to like this (it won’t take long) you can move on to one of the other toys. It’s good that the alpha is cheap, because you probably won’t go back to using it after he experiences the buzz or the spark. This is the easiest way to start using male sex toys in your relationship.